Whilst we celebrate valentine, we shouldn't forget to commiserate with the booless, half-booed, almost taken, waiting to be taken and taken for granted!!! lol.
Now, in the valentine spirit, I will like to share some tips with the girls on how to decipher if you are the main babe or side chic.
This is a write up by Odey Cecilia Iripe for the reading pleasure of our lovely blog readers.
How to know you are a side chick
Most ladies have gone through that phase where you have
doubts regarding your position in a relationship. Although you are in love with
him, something just feels off about him. You constantly feel like his heart
isn't so into the relationship. Questions like " does he take me as his
girlfriend? " " am I the only girl in his life? " " are we
ever going to walk down the aisle together? " keep running through your
mind. Well here are 8 reasons to tell you are nothing but a side chick to him.
1. He rarely goes on dates with you
People who are "dating" should go on
"dates". If you find yourself in a relationship where your man throws
a fit when you ask to go on a date with him and always gives lots of excuses when
a situation like this arises, he probably just sees u as a side chick, and
wouldn't want to risk being seen with you in public by his other girlfriend(s).
2. Refuses to be in a picture with you
" hey babe, smile for the camera", "
Tracy,take the camera away, I don't like to be seen in pics". Does this
scenario sound familiar? Well if it does,if you have ever been in a
relationship where your loving boyfriend constantly refuses taking pics with you,
get out of such. It's a sign he doesn't take you seriously. Nothing spells
evidence like a picture. Your boyfriend probably doesn't want any evidence to
prove he has ever been with you, should such picture find its way online.
3. Goes all jittery when you go through his phone
You pick your boyfriend 's phone and he gets so nervous, he
definitely has a lot of things to hide. And first on the list is, the series of
love messages between he and his other girlfriend. I know a lot of people say
it isn't right to go through your partner's phone. Well it might not always be
a good thing to do that, but once in a while, you could go through his phone.
Being nosy once in a while could open ur eyes to so many things your heart
would never reveal to you.
4. Never talks about the future
Most guys would rarely start up a topic on what the future
holds for you both, but if you bring it up on his behalf and he seems so
uninterested in it, well it can only mean he has never considered it. He
probably has no interest seeing you in his future.
5. Never receives his calls around you
A guy will make you his best friends if he loves you. He
wouldn't hide issues from you,like the conversations he make over the phone.
Whenever you find yourself with a boyfriend who never answers the call when you
are around, he has a lot to hide. Most likely another girl.
6. Never introduces you to his friends as his girlfriend
Your boyfriend's friends come over and he acts like you are
invisible or says " hey dude,meet Tracy" as an introduction, well
it's obvious where you stand in his life. You are probably just another girl to
be humped on Wednesdays,oops!. Guys normally like to show off their girlfriends
,if he refuses to do that, you don't need a psychic to tell you who you are to
him, a side chick.
7. He never takes you to his house
Guys naturally respect where they call a home. So if he
takes you home and makes you feel comfortable there, he is indirectly saying
" hey, you can come check on me whenever you want ". He has nothing
to hide. So something is definitely wrong if your boyfriend only takes you to a
hotel room or his friend's. Honey, you are his side chick.
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